Saturday, 27 December 2014

PLEASE HELP MAKE MY DREAM COME TRUE!!!



Hello One and All:

My book called, --- The Human Mind, has the potential to reduce the level of human suffering substantially.   Although I, myself, am guilty of failing to make its acceptance happen sooner, rather than later, the following publishers must also share in that guilt; even if they are presently unaware of such a fact.   Penguin – Random House, Wiley & Sons and Dorrance Publishers, as well as the Thomson family of Toronto whom I have also asked for help.

I entered the anxietyzone.com chat room ostensibly to help those with anxiety issues, only to finally realize that I am suffering from a massive level of anxiety myself in my efforts to get my ideas about how the human mind functions accepted.

Among other reasons, is the simple fact that I am not an accredited Psychologist and I have never officially received any credit for helping others overcome their anxieties and/or other fears.   The above simple truth represents perhaps the greatest and the most egregious short-coming that I possess at this particular time. 

Overcoming the above stated problems are my unalterable goals in life.   Writing these words represents my determination to get my above ideas about how the human mind functions accepted sooner, --- rather than later.  

And finally, although it is said that the best way to receive help is to actively help oneself; I am nevertheless, unashamedly asking that you help me to make my --- “dream” come true.

Monday, 22 December 2014

MATT, PAT AND TAT

Hello;

The credit for this story goes to a retired school teacher friend of  mine.   Apparently one of his friends had triplets.  One boy and the other two were identical twin girls.

So the parents called them Matt, Pat and Tat.  Everything  went well except for one problem.    

There was no Tit for Tat.  

Saturday, 20 December 2014

JERRY BAILEY

Hello my fine feathered friends:

So far I have not received any feed-back from the publishers that I have written to about my book.   I am pretty sure they have written me off as just one more "kook" that they have to endure.

I suppose if I had gotten a degree in University or become a Psychiatrist, I would have a better chance to be taken seriously.   But at the same time, there is a very good chance that I would never have written the kind of book that I have.

You see when you are ensconced in the profession that you are writing about, there is the unwritten rule that to safe-guard your economic well-being you do not criticize overtly the hand that feeds you.

A great example of this phenomena is the following story about Jerry Bailey.   He does the color commentary for one of the TV networks that televises the major horse races in America.

Some years ago Jerry wrote a scathing autobiography about the dishonesty and down-right cheating that occurs on the racetrack.   I remember concluding that he would never be hired by the Horse Racing establishment.  But I was wrong.

They hired him to keep him quiet about the dishonesty in their business by tying in his economic well-being to his motivation to find what is honest and good about horse racing.   I wonder if Jerry really knows why they hired him??    

Friday, 19 December 2014

MORE OIF WHO IS HELPING WHO?

HELLO AGAIN:

The psychiatrist was trying to help his patient with his problems of depression but he wasn't getting anywhere.  Finally the psych said:  "I've got a ticket to see the circus tonight and since my wife wants me to take her to the opera, I am going to give the ticket to you.   

I want you to pay particular attention to the clown in the center ring.  He is simply hilarious.  Sometimes when I am feeling a little depressed myself, I watch this clown for awhile and my troubles seem to go away.  Maybe he can help you also.  Here is the ticket."  "That sounds like a great idea",  said the clown, "except for one thing, --- I'm  the clown."  

WHO IS HELPING WHO??

Hello:

Earlier today, I was in www.anxietyzone.com in their chat room trying to help someone who was experiencing some anxiety.  My wife came into the room and told me that I was pounding on the keyboard and told me to stop it.

I was experiencing anxiety about the length of time that I was taking to respond to his comments.  That is why I was pounding on the keys.   So the question becomes, --- who is helping who?  Perhaps if this story has brought a sense of laughter to you than that is more important than anything I might say about anxiety.   

Far too often us human beings take ourselves too seriously and a small amount of humor at the appropriate time is just what the doctor ordered.  Even if I am not a Doctor per se. 

Thursday, 18 December 2014

OVERCOMING ONE'S FEARS

In my attempt to get my Human Mind book published, I am in contact with Penquin - Random House in New York city,  Dorrance Publishing in Pittsburg and the Etobicoke office of John Wylie & Sons (Canada).   I am also sending snail mail letters to Marilyn Thomson of the rich and famous Thomson family in Toronto. 

I am using snail mail instead of emails.  My motive, in part, --- is to separate myself from the horde of other letters [emails] that these companies receive every day.

The other part of my motive is to force myself to move forward in my efforts to get my book published.   If I fail it will be up front for all to see. This situation should help to motivate me to be more successful.

The other aspect of this endeavor involves the emotion of fear.  When trying to overcome the fear of failure, it is important to take small steps.  One could compare that journey to climbing a ladder.  If you try to skip one or more of the steps there is a good chance that you will fall down and fail.

My achievement is two-fold in nature.   The most important achievement is to get my ideas about how the human mind functions accepted.  The ancillary achievement is to get the book published. 

In a commercial for an upcoming movie Sylvester Stalone says: --- "It is not how hard you can hit someone else.  It is how hard can you be hit and still move forward."  I am trying to continue to move forward.      

Tuesday, 16 December 2014

I HAVE A DREAM

HELLO EVERYONE:

They say that the journey is more rewarding than reaching your destination, but this journey is getting on my nerves.   How much longer will the human race suffer in silence [read ignorance] while I preach to the deaf.

Actually it is all my fault.  It is my responsibility to develop the communicative skills that will  allow my fellow travellers through life to see the value of the ideas that I have to offer about how the human mind functions.

This new knowledge that I have to offer,will, in the future, be considered a small step in the unending desire on our part to understand the complexities of the human mind. 

Although the future will look at it as a small step, today it looks like a huge one.   I have a dream that one day it will all come true.   The rest of my life will gladly be spent trying to make it happen.   Thank you for having the patience and the staying power to read this message to the end.

Friday, 12 December 2014

MEDICATING TO OBLIVION

Hello You All:

The following words after the ____ are from the Toronto Star newspaper as of Dec. 12, 2014.  In accordance with ideas that I have expressed somewhere in my Human Mind book, "pretty soon all of us will be on some kind of mind-altering drug."
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From The Toronto Star

Top CAS officials describe the high number (of children in group homes or foster homes who are prescribed) psychotropic or behaviour-altering medication as a crisis.

Between the ages of 5 to 17, --- 48.6% are on medication and 74% of children from 10 to 15 also.

“The medication problem is huge,” says Raymond Lemay, who retired this summer after 32 years as executive director of the Prescott-Russell children’s aid society.  ``It’s catastrophic.``


“We should be doing other things than medicating these kids,” he says, adding his agency discourages the use of psychotropic drugs. “Medication is inappropriate in many circumstances and will do these kids long-term damage.”  So what do you think, should we start using my theory about correcting conglomerated fears, or should we just keep throwing more drugs at them?  



Thursday, 11 December 2014

GENETIC OR ENVIRONMENTAL, THAT IS THE QUESTION?

This Post is also copied and pasted from the book called, --- The Human Mind.  It happens just before the start of the third chapter.  It discusses the issues involved in determining whether schizophrenia is caused by genetic or environmental factors. 



PETER R. BREGGIN, M.D.

We are called to be architects
of our future, not victims of it.

Although you will not find any other book on psychology that will put forward the ultimate supremacy of the emotion of fear, in combination with the desire to be successful at the necessary and voluntary achievements that are important to any specific individual, as I have attempted to do in this book, you can easily find thousands of books on both sides of the current dilemma in the field of psychological endeavor.

Namely, --- are mental illness and stress related problems, caused by physical and/or genetic factors, --- or are they caused by psychological factors that can be negotiated and therefore overcome?  Of course a third option could be put forward which would conclude that it is a combination of both.  And in many, if not all cases, that would be exactly correct, because eventually, the thoughts that you embrace have a physical affect on your body as well as your mind. 

The other rather obvious fact that you would discover is that except for a few others, such as John Modrow and myself, all authors on this subject have either a Ph.D. or an M.D. after their names.  Perhaps it takes an outsider, who has taken extensive advantage of our incredible library system, to take an unbiased look at both sides of this quandary.   

Or, of even more importance, a person who is not economically ensconced on one side or the other, but is free to follow the search for the truth wherever it may lead.   With the above thoughts in mind, I emphatically believe that such a search on my part, has allowed me to find a modicum of order in a discipline that, at this time, appears to be a field littered with a plethora of chaos.

Without a doubt, bio-psychiatry with the most money, (read pharmaceutical backing), has the most books which tend to give credence to their understanding and beliefs which favor chemical imbalances and genetic factors as the cause of stress related problems and mental illness.  They have therefore concluded that such problems cannot be overcome by the sufferer without the use of the neuroleptic drugs that they have developed.  

One of the many giants who champion the cause for the use of psychological therapies is Dr. Peter R. Breggin and his wife Ginger.  Dr. Breggin has written the book called, “Toxic Psychiatry.”  If you are a serious student in the field of psychology and in particular, psychiatry, you should definitely consider this book to be mandatory reading.

The following, harrowing story starts on page 105 of the above mentioned book.   It involves the Genain Quadruplets and I am quoting directly from Dr. Breggin’s book.  NIMH psychologist David Rosenthal is the editor of a book entitled --- The Genain Quadruplets: 

A study in Heredity and Environment in Schizophrenia (1963).  The book examines in detail, the lives of four young women, identical quadruplets, all of whom apparently became mad.  Various investigators look at the lives of these children from every possible perspective.  

Rosenthal himself assumed that schizophrenia in four genetically identical females was prima facie evidence of a genetic cause, and he tells the reader that he named the family “Genain” by deriving it from the Greek words meaning “dire birth” or “dreadful gene.”   

Nonetheless, he assures the reader that “my position is one which considers both genetic and environmental factors important in such disorders.”   So, could something other than their genes have driven all four girls crazy?  

The father of these four twins is an alcoholic, subject to fits of paranoia.  He impregnates at least two women other than his wife during the time when the twins are young children and is notorious for his affairs.  He beats his children and his wife, restricts them to the home, and allows them no outside contacts and no deviation from robotic regimentation.  When his wife threatens to leave, he tells her that he will follow her anywhere and murder her.

Obsessed with his family’s sexuality, he “plays sexual games ” with at least one of the girls, and “if his wife or daughter ate a piece of darkly toasted bread, he accused them of ‘trying to get sexually stimulated.’ “ When his preteen daughters are found masturbating, he puts acid on one of their genitals.

When that fails to stop them, he sends two of them to a sadistic surgeon who mutilates their genitals, severing nerves and cutting out substantial flesh.  So notorious is the surgeon that he is driven out of private practice and goes to work in a  mental hospital. 

In the mother’s words, the father is “always so angry, hateful and mean.”   During sex, he frequently bites her face so badly that it bleeds and swells up.  On one occasion the mother had to knock down her husband in self-defense in front of her brood of four young girls.   Once he banged two of the girl’s heads together to stop them from crying.

The mother. as  one can easily imagine, has her own problems.  When the children are young and in their formative years, she is despondent and suicidal.  She also has bizarre ideas, participating in the use of acid and mutilating surgery on her children’s genitals and probably communicating her own fear that masturbation breeds madness.

When one of the girls develops the first hint of breasts, she explains that they are bruises and treats them with salve.  She takes one of the children to a psychiatric clinic to stop her from masturbating.  The psychiatrist describes the mother as “very inflexible and a very controlling kind of person.”

The mother doesn’t return when the psychiatrist cannot “magically” stop her daughter from touching herself.  When three of the girls are later sexually assaulted, she tells them to forget it and offers no sympathy.  The mother participates in the creation of a home that “most” outsiders consider “fear ridden, devoid of fun and humor, and very restrictive .”    There is a coldness in the house and the children “needed more warmth,” according to outside observers.

Indeed, their teachers feel sorry for them  because of their restrictive life.  The four girls are not allowed to participate in normal school activities and come to school “marching” like an army squad doing double time.  It is no wonder that people describe the quadruplets as “passive, timid and unusually quiet children who showed little spontaneity or initiative.”    They show no curiosity in school and they do not have a “good childish laugh.”

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This is a heart-rending tale of extreme child abuse.  It chronicles the emotional, physical, and sexual abuse of four female children who happen to be quadruplets.  Yet this is not how Rosenthal presents the “cases.”   He presents them as a scientific study of genetic and environmental influences on the development of the “disease” of schizophrenia.  With heavy emphasis upon genetics, including elaborate reviews of presumably relevant genetic studies.

The book presents one of the most tragic chronicles of child abuse that has ever been recorded.  Yet at no time is the abuse discussed as such.  At no  place in the book is it summarized.  The data is strewn throughout the six hundred pages in the reports of the various professionals who took part in the examination of these girls and their family make up.  Much of the story is contained in footnotes.  The synopsis of which, as it appears above, has been put together by me, (Dr. Breggin) from these scattered observations.

This story leaves one overcome with pity.  Imagine what it was like for the quadruplets to have lived such lives?   For Rosenthal to suggest that the study supports a genetic theory of schizophrenia itself constitutes intellectual complicity with the child abuser.

To fail to underscore or to summarize the outrages perpetrated against the children constitutes intellectual complicity with the child abuser or abusers.  To leave the reader to dig the abuse out of hundreds of pages is to invite the question, --- why wouldn’t this renowned NIMH geneticist face the facts directly?  

It comes as no surprise that Rosenthal’s most famous and influential accomplishment --- the Danish adoption study of shizophrenia ---- also was grossly oversold to the psychiatric profession and to the public at large.

Those who favor a genetic factor for schizophrenia could say that both of the parents in this story were mentally ill from genetic damage and they passed it on to their children.  But if the genetic factor is so easily traced, why hasn’t it been demonstrated beyond a doubt?

It has been well documented that people who were at one time considered to be schizophrenic are now living normal lives with mature approaches to life’s necessary achievements and responsibilities.  Does that mean that such individuals, in some unknown manner, spontaneously corrected the “so called” genetic damage? 

On the other side of the coin, I believe that if you or I had been born into the family environment that these poor unfortunate girls were born into, there would have been a 90% chance that we too would have been ultimately labeled as being mentally ill in one specific classification or the other.  

I do not say 100% in this situation, because some children find the psychological power and resolve, to reject everything that they learn from their parents instead of being negatively influenced by it.  Where they derive such power and determination from is indeed a mystery to me. 

Those who are so inclined, and wish to cling to a belief that this “disease” is genetic in origin, as is postulated for other forms of mental illness also, owe it to themselves to look deeper into this problem.  If they do so, I believe that it is impossible not to realize that overcoming conglomerated and distorted fears is the real answer to what otherwise appears to be an unsolvable riddle.

There are many other stories as thought provoking as this one in Dr. Breggin’s book, (Toxic Psychiatry), that convincingly portray the dilemma that is occurring in the psychological profession today.  The entire book is a virtual “library” of valuable information on this most important subject.  
       
On page 3 of Dr. Breggin’ book is this stunning quote:  I am still more frightened by the fearless power in the eyes of my fellow psychiatrists than I am by the powerless fear in the eyes of their patients. --- R. D. Lang  (1985) 

The above quote represents one of the most concise messages that I have ever had the privilege of reading, which dramatically emphasizes the awesome power of understanding fear itself.  Not as it is presently constituted, but rather, in its position of primary focus when one is trying to understand human behavior.

On page 15, under the title of psychiatrists in despair, is this quote among a litany of similar attitudes among many psychiatrists.  One of my psychiatric colleagues --- “a talking doctor” like myself --- tells me.   “I wouldn’t do it over again.   No, if I knew  where psychiatry was going, I’d never have become a psychiatrist.” 

Wednesday, 10 December 2014

THE RESILIENCE FACTOR




HELLO EVERYONE:

The name of the book that deals with cognitive behavioral therapy is: --- The Resilience Factor.   It was written by Karen Revitch Ph. D. & Andrew Shatte Ph. D.  On page 54 of that book the following words appear:

“An enormous body of evidence demonstrates that cognitive behavioral therapy is a highly effective treatment for anxiety and depression.  People can bring about real change in their lives if they focus on what really matters: ones beliefs, thoughts and emotions.

Another book is called, --- Beyond Prozac and it was written by Dr. Michael J. Norden M.D.  On page 176 of that book the following quotation from Dr. Jeffrey Swartz appears:

“Psychological treatments clearly produce biological effects on the brain.  My colleagues and I have recently shown that, similar to Prozac, a form of cognitive behavioral therapy is capable of correcting abnormalities in the brain metabolic rates of patients with obsessive compulsive behavior.”

In the book that I have written on this subject, I quote the above words and add the following: --- Giving someone a Selective Serotonin Uptake Inhibitor such as Prozac is similar to giving someone a fish for supper.   Giving someone beneficial psychological therapy, which would have to include knowledge about the effects of conglomerated fear, is similar to teaching someone how to fish.

To the general public at large. --- Please don’t become over excited.  Help is on the way but it will take some time for it to have the extended beneficial effect that I am sure that it will ultimately provide --- for the entire human race.

  

Monday, 8 December 2014

CALL FOR PHILLIP MORRIS --- OR IS IT PENQUIN RANDOM HOUSE?



Hello:



Here is a copy of a letter that I will immediately send to The Publisher at Random House Inc. (Headquarters).    I am sending it snail mail because they receive so many emaiIs each day, they tend to  dismiss them out of hand.  

I will let you know whether they accept my proposal or tell me to get lost or simply refuse to answer me.  Part of my reason for placing this letter in this blog is to further motivate me to make it happen.   After all, if it all adds up to nothing; I will certainly look like I have egg all over my face.  Won’t I!!!



Mr. Stephen Adams

3030 Prospect St.  # 6-N

Burlington, Ontario, Canada

L7N  2P5



1-905-681-9231






Dec 7, 2014



Hello:



I have written a book called, --- The Human Mind, which will turn the Psychiatric profession upside down.   While a majority of doctors believe that mental illness is caused by genetic factors, my book will show that --- conversely, in a majority of cases it is caused by incorrect responses to the emotion of fear.



It has taken me more than 30 years of research to determine these results.  Two important quotes from my book illustrate the authenticity of my conclusions in this area. 





Certain psychological models have shown that the problem of stress related situations and mental illness can alter brain metabolism.  On page 176, of Dr. Michael J. Norden’s book called, --- Beyond Prozac, the following quotation, attributed to Dr. Jeffrey Schwartz appears.



“My colleagues and I have recently shown that, similar to Prozac, a form of cognitive behavioral therapy, is capable of correcting abnormalities in the brain metabolic rates of patients with obsessive compulsive behavior.”



Giving someone Prozac or some other brain-altering drug is similar to giving someone a fish for supper.  Giving someone valuable insights into the handling of fear [stress], is similar to teaching someone how to fish.



The second quotation is attributed to Dr. A. G. Forgione in his book written in 1978, which he called, Fear [Learning to Cope.]  The exact quotation appears on page 137 of that book as follows:





“Fears that permeate many different aspects of an individual’s behavior may become deeply entrenched and protected through elaborate rationalizations and an almost impenetrable maze of defense mechanisms.  Such far-ranging fears, essentially affect the entire personality.”   



My book itself, entitled --- The Human Mind, can be accessed at stephenadams1737.blogspot.com which helps to establish its initial copyright potential.  That internet website will connect you to the latest Post in the site of which there are approximately 40 Posts.  To read the book, you must access the first Post in the Human Mind blog.



It is my unequivocal belief that the establishment that publishes this book will become the pre-eminent publisher in the North American area and beyond for the foreseeable future.



In this regard then, I will be asking for a substantial signing bonus to publish this book.  If you are interested, please contact me at the following email

address: strarrow2@gmail.com or in any other way that you consider to be appropriate.



If you believe that this letter represents a pipe-dream on my part, please be good enough to say so in your response to me.   I am 77 years old and I do not have the time to engage in long, --- drawn out negotiations.  Be that as it may, I will nevertheless await with suppressed anxiety, any communication from you in whatever form.



I am yours respectfully,



                                              



Stephen Adams

Saturday, 6 December 2014

WHOSE FAULT IS IT ANYWAY?

Hello:

Many years ago when I was still driving a taxi in the city of Toronto, a black person got into my car and asked why it took him so long to get a taxi?  None of the taxis wanted to stop and pick him up.

I said: "The next time you are at a party and one of your black friends starts bragging about sticking some cab driver for the fare; get up and tell him that he is part of the reason why you cannot get a taxi as easily as you would like to."  

He didn't say very much for the remainder of the trip. Yes indeed, white people also try to stick up the driver sometimes, --- but not as often as younger black men do. 

WATCHING TV

Hello One and All:

The other day I was watching CNN and the white woman asked about the possibility that the black community involved in a particular situation is making some kind of mistake.

The black person to whom this question was asked said that there was no mistake by a black person and the woman was asking the wrong question.  She should have been asking what was the white community doing wrong?

Here is another example of someone who thinks that the black community must be right and so someone else is to blame.   Get real.   Both sides have to look at their behavior and change things for the better.