MALE AGGRESSION

Hello To One And All:

In Toronto, Canada right now there is a big controversy over the aggressive sexual practices of a former DJ on the show Q for the CBC.   The following ideas may just have something to do with this problem.

When a man is engaged in the act of procreation and as he gets very close to climaxing, his feelings are such that it becomes almost impossible to avoid climaxing.   This manifests itself as an aggressive tendency to refuse to stop as a man gets closer and closer to ejaculation.  Then while he is ejaculating, he tends to want to push his penis as far inside the woman as possible.  These feelings have a genetic component to them and they help to make sure that the human race will not easily approach extinction.

They are indeed "true" feelings for the man but if one then decides that such aggression is one's true self and then extrapolates these feelings into more aggressive behavior during all parts of the sex act, then that man can develop unwanted aggression towards his female sexual partner.

While such aggressive behavior is normal while the man is ejaculating, it is also normal for him to be overly gentle after he has climaxed as if he is trying to make up for his aggressive behavior from just a few moments ago.   This represents the true character of male sexual behavior and it is the one that all men should strive for.

The main thing to remember in all of this is that the unchecked aggressive behavior in other areas of sexual activity between the man and woman is negotiable and it is not a genetic determination that is beyond one's control.